The Top Ten Reasons To Leave Someone You Love

Why do I keep posting these top ten about relationship/love/heartbreaks? When I am not in one?? go figure! LMAO.

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Obviously if you love someone, leaving is not the first thing you’d want to do. It’s a contradiction in many ways, a soup of cognitive dissonance. But for some unlucky few, this is a bitter pill that they’ve had to swallow, for some many times over. I guess you just need a good reason.

September 12, 2009 → The Top Ten Reasons To Leave Someone You Love

1. Dru - If he’s too much like Rhianna’s songs - Unfaithful and Disturbia.
2. No name - If his “EGO” is too hard to swallow.
3. Terrybol - Because I found out that his nickname for me is, “his last resort”. (OUCH!)
   
4. Wickedmarrionette - Because I got demoted from “girlfriend”, to “the girl he flirts with while the girlfriend is away”. (what comes around goes around..)
   
5. No name - I thought we were happy together until he told me that we were not.
6. McMaki - If she tells you, “I just realized you’re not Chinese…”
7. Paula - If he starts acting more like a parent than a boyfriend.
8. Astroboy - If you catch yourself pretending to be happy.
9. Loi Pogi - If you find out that he’s one of those guys who are, “Bi Now, Gay Later.”( sister pla sya... lol)
   
10. AA - We’ve been together for 10 years and we’ve never had sex. (Whew! El Niñ0 ate? lol)
    
11. Rayakin - Nung computer na ang hinihingi niya. I’m gay na may jowang bagets.
12. Lonely Girl - When you can’t remember why you fell in love with him in the first place.
13. Chip - Because it was wrong to begin with. (GO!!!!)
    
14. Robjo - Because I wanted a boyfriend, not a baby.
15. Alien V - Mas mabuti nang mag-isa kaysa may pangit na kasama.(LOL!)
16. Gong - If I’m an option and not a choice.
17. Chun Yang - When you find yourself hanging on to something you’re better off letting go. “To have it halfway is harder than not having it at all.”
18. Irish - Pag naghihilahan na kayo pababa.
19. Maximo - Kasi gusto na niyang bumalik sa tunay niyang asawa.
20. Carrie Bradshaw Blvd - I had to leave him when he was terminally ill. His family brought him to the US & they asked me to let go and go on with my life. (So sad... :'c )
    
21. KT - Because he chose his inheritance over me.
22. Marvinbez- Leave while there are still more happy memories than sad.
23. PrettyMe17 - When I found out he’s not only cheating on his wife, but he’s cheating on me as well.
24. PrettyMe17 - When the person you want the m0st, is the pers0n that you’re better off without.
25. Bapsdar - If you both go home to your respective families carrying a lot of guilt.
26. Chloe - If he drives a wedge between me and my daughter.
27. Chuchi Cua - If it becomes more painful to stay.
28. No name - I left my b0yfriend, a policeman, who was also my bestfriend f0r 5 years. Because he shot my brother in a police raid. I want to forgive him but I just can’t.
29. Espeks - When loving her costs more than your monthly salary. (tsk tsk.. Financer...)
    
30. Cha - So you can come back, and have great make-up sex. (HAHAHAHAHA!)
    
31. Blue 4W - If he can’t stand up for you when you go against his mother.
32. Habibi - When the unintentional hurting becomes intentional.
33. Espeks - When making love becomes plain sex.
34. Bobcat - If you find out that your loved one is a professional escort.
35. No name - Because I don’t want to be a mistress forever.
36. Hornelia - Because I finally found someone who loves me BACK. (standing ovation!!!)
    

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The Top Ten Reasons To Stay In A Bad Relationship

Thanks kimmi for sharing... lol. This is so funny and sooo true in a lot of ways... AY! MAY EXPERIENCE??? CHOS!

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The logic is to leave a bad relationship. But somehow, a gajillion people stay in B-A-A-A-D relationships, for whatever reason they may have. They’re in so much pain, yet they keep coming back for more. I’m not judging here, it’s a fact. Well, here are some of their reasons. This is one of the best Top Tens EVER. The entries were all so good, I couldn’t choose which ones to include! I guess the best Top Tens are those where you guys send us stuff straight from the heart; when it comes from your own personal experiences. LOVED this one.

May 20, 2008 → The Top Ten Reasons To Stay In A Bad Relationship

1. No name - Because when I watch her sleeping, I can still see the girl I fell in love with, before it all went bad.
2. D.vet - You stay because you found love, even if it’s not the love that you wanted.
3. No name - It’s like I just don’t want to end it until the relationship dies a natural death.
4. Jijipong - Because the sex is crazily good.
5. Amber - I once heard this from a neighbor: “Wag mo na pakawalan yan, kasi baka wala ka nang ibang makita pa ulit!”
6. Farrah - Because I don’t want to fight all the time with any other man except him.
7. Purplerose - My friend’s reason: “Sayang naman yung 10 years.”
8. Veronica sierra - As long as I can still bear the pain.
9. Nico Loco - Because he is my best friend AND my business partner.
10. Jigs - She swallows.
11. Gorgeous Bitch - Because you’re too stubborn to admit that, once again, you failed.
12. No name - A friend once said she stayed with her boyfriend even if he was cheating because she would rather be miserable with him, than be miserable without him.
13. Twylyt - Pinasok ko, kaya paninindigan ko.
14. Charlie - Some people simply think that love is SUPPOSED to hurt.
15. JT - I have a friend. The guy is very babaero. And we ask her, kung bakit ayaw niya pang hiwalayan? She replied, “Kasi siya yung naka-una…”
16. Marcus - When you’d be worse off if you quit than if you keep doing it.
17. Purplerose - “Magbabago naman sya pag ikinasal na kami.”
18. ACER -Because I accept the fact that I’m responsible for 50% of what makes it a bad relationship.
19. Tiffany - Because he’s the best father my kid could ever have…even if he’s a lousy husband.
20. Jijipong - Okay na rin at least I have her platinum credit card extension.
21. No name - Kasi ayaw ko magpatalo sa asawa niya.
22. Rael/JV/Spy Shadow/LanceLUST - It’s the free sex.
23. Öta - Because zero sex is worse!
24. Toni - Because there’s no guarantee that I’ll find better.
25. Gorgeous Bitch - Because even if he makes you the most miserable person in the world, he is also the only one who makes you the happiest.
26. Dyosa - Because I get to be dominant. He takes care of our house, children, laundry, etc. And I don’t get nagged when I come home late.
27. Cookai - Because he loves me more than I love him.
28. Argueliz - Because there are no bad relationships. Only people with unrealistic expectations.
29. ALLE - So that there’ll be no thoughts of: “Maybe if I tried a little harder, it might have worked.”
30. Karen of Cainta - Because I’m a coward.
31. Abegail - Because he makes me feel loved, whenever he’s not hurting me.
32. Espeks - Because I hate the idea of starting the whole process all over again.
33. Vie/Luvh8s - I don’t want to have a broken family.
34. Espeks - Because she’s always there when nobody else will.
35. Coachdanny - Her dad is an alumnus of a top UAAP school and gets season tickets to Ateneo games (lower box) and he is a manager of one company that has a PBA team and he is given upper box season tickets. For a basketball fan that’s great.
36. May 5264 - How do you say goodbye to someone who has NEVER deliberately hurt you, no matter how often he does it?
37. Leitox - Because love has no boundaries.
38. Angel of my Life - I’d stay in a bad relationship to hurt him more.
39. Louise - A friend once told me that she’s staying in a bad relationship because he’s the best looking guy she’s ever been with. Sayang naman daw. If they have kids at least cute.
40. Jaja - My mom just can’t end their more than 30 years of marriage kasi baka daw ikamatay pa ng dad ko & she’s not prepared to carry that in her conscience for the rest of her life.
41. Mr. Perk - If you’ve accepted the fact that you’re simply just one of those people who were destined to be in a bad relationship.
42. V55 - Kasi sa relationship namin, ako yung bad. Plus, she’s the first “shaved” woman I was ever with.
43. Prince_Fireside - At least I won’t be alone on dates like Xmas, New Year & Valentines. Besides, I can always ditch the bad relationship if a better person comes along.
44. Powerful Alice - Sadista siya, masokista ako…parang bagay na din.
45. Chino - She’s too dependent on me, as if she can’t breath w/o me. Kawawa naman if I leave her.
46. Mikimoto - Because it was I who screwed up the best I ever had.
47. Bing - Because his dad has cancer. And I’m the only one he can count on to stand by his side through all this.
48. Gorgeous Bitch - Because some are born lucky…and some aren’t.
49. Cheyenne - Because you stand by the vows you made when you were married.
50. Bennett - The worse the fight, the better the make up sex.
51. Marie - If the amount of love you get still exceeds the amount of pain.
52. Gorgeous Bitch - Because your stupid heart said so!

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The Top Ten Bitch Quotes

Bee-yotch. Probably one of the most common used aspersion for women. A couple of months ago, we posed the question, “What’s the definition of ‘bitch’?” Surprisingly, we got quite a number of different ways to look at the word. It’s like we all know what it means, but it’s quite difficult to define.

June 26, 2008 → The Top Ten Bitch Quotes

1. Tippi - On the first day of the Mango sale, the sister of my friend was looking around and picked up a dress when a woman at the counter started screaming,”Put that down, that’s mine!” The sister of my friend looked up, looked at the woman up and down, raised an eyebrow, and replied, “Excuse me. You are NOT a ’small’”
2. Maximo - A supervisor once told a worker who has difficulty in understanding instructions, “Ang ulo, hindi lang yan pinapatong sa leeg, ginagamit din yan sa pagiisip.”
3. Springturns - A friend told another friend, “Naku, magma-makeup muna ako, baka magmukha akong yaya mo.” The other friend replied, “Wag na, magmumukha ka lang yaya ko na naka-makeup.”
4. Bennett - I told my then boyfriend during a fight, “Even on your smartest day, you’re not half as smart as I am on my dumbest!”
5. Riverbanks - “Ako, I was born beautiful. Ikaw, you were just born.”
6. Astroboy - A letter posted on a car windshield in UP: “Sir/madam, the parkng space that we have reserved is for the College Secretary, not for you. Guard.”
7. Shining - When I saw friend I haven’t seen in a long time, she told me, “Grabe, lalo ka pang tumaba!” So I told her, “Ikaw din, lalo ka pang pumangit!”
8. Eylek - Pag sinisingitan ako sa pila, nagpaparinig ako. I say, “Ang pilang ito, according to beauty. Mga panget muna.”
9. Gorgeous Bitch - “Unlike you, tinuruan ako ng mga magulang ko na hindi pumatol sa may asawa.”
10. Jose de vengenge - From the movie She’s The Man: “Girls with an ass like mine don’t go out with boys with a face like yours.”
11. Joe - “Maliban sa mukha mo, ano pang problema mo?”
12. Anfernee - I once told an officemate who kept on bragging about her new shoes, “Sale, right?”
13. Pong Pagong - I pointed a “7 items or less” sign to a clueless pasosyal at the supermarket. She bitchily answered, “I can read!” Sabay irap. So I shot back with, “I know, but can you count?”
14. Astroboy - “Tuwing nakikita kita, gusto ko mag-sorry sa eyes ko.”
15. Dru - “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to be bitchy. It’s an involuntary reaction whenever I encounter ugly people.”
16. Astroboy - Man: “Hey baby, what’s your sign?” Woman: “Do not enter.”
17. Astroboy - Man: “how do you like your eggs in the morning?” Woman: “Unfertilized.”
18. Aeon- After receiving her pay slip and realizng how much she’s paying for tax, a sosyal officemate exclaimed, “Ang mga poor ba nagbabayad din ng tax?”
19. Riverbanks - During a hike at Mt. Mayon, we had a maarte companion. When we ran out of water, our guide got us some from a ntural spring. The maarte girl said, “Dini-drink ba yan?” I told her, “Bakit, sa inyo ba ang water chinu-chew?”
20. Noel - Overheard from 2 kids talking. Kid 1: “Lahat tayo galing kay Adam and Eve.” Kid 2: “Hindi yan totoo. Sabi ng papa ko, galing tayo sa unggoy.” Kid 1: “Hindi natin pinag-uusapn ang pamilya mo, kaya wag kang magulo!”
21. Loipogi - A friend told his officemate: “I’m impressed. I’ve never encountered such a small mind inside such a big head before.”
22. Pachuchay - Bading: (envying a girl na crush ng crush nya) “Isang butas lang ang lamang mo sa kin!”
23. ACER - I was staring at an ugly bystander in their street. The ugly guy snapped, “Bakit ang sama mo makatingin?” I snapped back, “Eh bakit ang sama mo tignan?”
24. Persh - A friend once told me, “Ang ganda mo!” I answered: “Thank you, sana ikaw rin…”
25. Jose de vengenge - I told this to an ex: “I must admit you brought religion to my life. I never believed in hell till I met you.”
26. Gorgeous Bitch - “When a cashier tells me she doesn’t have change, I say: “And…kaninong problema yun?”
27. Em-em Unggoy - “Kung lahat ng tao galing sa unggoy, bakit ikaw, mukha kang kabayo?”

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Withdrawal

Withdrawal… familiar word? Baka kung anong withdrawal ang iniisip mo ha?

In this case I’m talking about the word withdrawal used when a certain person who is in to smoking or drugs suddenly goes Cold turkey or stops gradually… Gnito daw un… sabi nung isang friend ko na chronic smoker, ung withdrawal daw ung point sa pagbabagong buhay nya mlayo sa yosi na nanginginig sya… sobrang nagpapawis… bsta… in other words… weird or out of the extraordinary things happened to him… Cause he was used to smoking it looks like his body is sooo used to it that it won’t function the same way without it…

I didn’t know may withdrawal din pla ang break from a long term relationship…

Someone should have told me… They should have warned me at least… I was so used to having him around; I am not functioning well right now… Well it’s not like I’m going crazy or anything like that. I just can’t get him out of my system while he seems to be functioning well without me…

Syet ito na yata tlga un noh? Ung point ng realization… I was really starting to wonder why I just cried once after the break up… It was sooo not me… I’m not feeling that much pain when that was the longest relationship I ever had so far… Maybe that’s why... My brain is processing it slowly resulting to this weird things happening to me…

Gnito ba talaga un o paranoid lang talaga ko?

But I miss him… that’s one thing that is clear…

1st post for the Year 2009

Yeah! I made it through New Year's Eve. With the pain I am in, it just felt like I wasn't going to make it... But here I am writing this entry as my first post for this year. DANG! that is something eh? So how was your New Year's Eve? I hope it was better than mine. Bought Absolut Vodka to drink with my siblings but they didn't even bother joining me. Hmp! So drunk it by myself and finished 1/4 of it.. Slept like a baby after...

People have their own struggle that they have to face everyday. I have this as my own... I have the whole year to deal with it but I hope that it won't take that much time to live with it...

T'was great speaking to an old friend... T'was like a breath of fresh air... She just found out about my struggle and she was flippin' out. Made me think how much I miss her... At last I'll be able to see her this weekend...

She said something really nice... Something to guide me with what I'm going through...

“Don’t think of reasons why he did that. Just be thankful you had him for a while and think of the good times.”

“Think Positive. Remember thoughts become things.”

Wow! That’s really something… Didn’t think she’s capable of giving those kind of advice. HAHAHAHA! JK bitches! You know I love you.

I have to work extra hard and pray even harder. Live day by day thinking of the things that make life meaningful.

Pray with me friends.